How much contact do you have with your husband during the week? Does he work 40 plus hours out of the home? Men may not be as emotional as we are but it is in their nature to be needed and wanted. I'd like to offer 10 suggestions to keep your fire kindled...
1. Set an alarm 15 min prior to his and cuddle for those last minutes in bed
2. Wake up early and make him a hot breakfast
3. When you pack his lunch write him a note on a napkin
4. Pack one of his favorite snacks for a lunch dessert
5. Send him a text just saying " I miss you" or " I can't wait to hug you"
6. Watch "his" TV shows or movies with him
7. Get him his favorite candy at your next gas stop
8. Make his favorite meal once every 3 months
9. Ask him to help you lift something heavy or leave a light bulb for him to change
10. When the kids ask a tough question say "That's a Daddy question"
I am not saying do all of these things every day! What I am suggesting is do a few a week and earn some love points on the scoreboard. There is no such thing as too many love points. Be prepared for when you get into an argument or disagreement and points are taken away. Don't end up owing points.
Give it a try and lets talk about it over coffee!
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